Commuter Spouses : : New Families in a Changing World / / Danielle Lindemann.
What can we learn from looking at married partners who live apart? In Commuter Spouses: New Families in a Changing World, Danielle Lindemann explores how couples cope when they live apart to meet the demands of their dual professional careers. Based on the personal stories of almost one-hundred comm...
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Lindemann, Danielle, author. aut http://id.loc.gov/vocabulary/relators/aut Commuter Spouses : New Families in a Changing World / Danielle Lindemann. Ithaca, NY : Cornell University Press, [2019] ©2019 1 online resource (198 p.) text txt rdacontent computer c rdamedia online resource cr rdacarrier text file PDF rda Frontmatter -- Contents -- Acknowledgments -- Introduction -- 1. Apart Together: Individualism, Interdependence, and the Meaning of (Commuter) Marriage -- 2. Virtually Together: Space, Place, and Communication Technologies -- 3. Nobody's Decision: The "Choice" to Live Apart -- 4. "They Don't Have to Pick up Their Husbands' Shoes": Doing and Undoing Gender -- 5. Who Benefits from (Commuter) Marriage? -- 6. "But Are They Happy?" -- Conclusion -- Appendix A: Methodological Appendix -- Appendix B: Interview Schedule -- Appendix C: Follow-up Survey -- Notes -- References -- Index restricted access http://purl.org/coar/access_right/c_16ec online access with authorization star What can we learn from looking at married partners who live apart? In Commuter Spouses: New Families in a Changing World, Danielle Lindemann explores how couples cope when they live apart to meet the demands of their dual professional careers. Based on the personal stories of almost one-hundred commuter spouses, Lindemann shows how these atypical relationships embody (and sometimes disrupt!) gendered constructions of marriage in the United States. These narratives of couples who physically separate to maintain their professional lives reveal the ways in which traditional dynamics within a marriage are highlighted even as they are turned on their heads. Commuter Spouses follows the journeys of these couples as they adapt to change and shed light on the durability of some cultural ideals, all while working to maintain intimacy in a non-normative relationship.Lindemann suggests that everything we know about marriage, and relationships in general, promotes the idea that couples are focusing more and more on their individual and personal betterment and less on their marriage. Commuter spouses, she argues, might be expected to exemplify in an extreme manner that kind of self-prioritization. Yet, as this book details, commuter spouses actually maintain a strong commitment to their marriage. These partners illustrate the stickiness of traditional marriage ideals while simultaneously subverting expectations. Issued also in print. Mode of access: Internet via World Wide Web. In English. Description based on online resource; title from PDF title page (publisher's Web site, viewed 02. Mrz 2022) Commuter marriage United States. Long-distance relationships United States. Work and family United States. Family & Relationships. Labor History. Sociology & Social Science. BUSINESS & ECONOMICS / Labor. bisacsh Title is part of eBook package: De Gruyter Cornell University Press Complete eBook-Package 2019 9783110651980 Title is part of eBook package: De Gruyter EBOOK PACKAGE COMPLETE 2019 English 9783110610765 Title is part of eBook package: De Gruyter EBOOK PACKAGE COMPLETE 2019 9783110664232 ZDB-23-DGG Title is part of eBook package: De Gruyter EBOOK PACKAGE Economics 2019 9783110606065 ZDB-23-DBV Title is part of eBook package: De Gruyter EBOOK PACKAGE Economics, Law & Social Sciences 2019 ENG 9783110610130 print 9781501731181 https://doi.org/10.7591/9781501731198 https://www.degruyter.com/isbn/9781501731198 Cover https://www.degruyter.com/document/cover/isbn/9781501731198/original |
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