Dilemmas of Desire : : Teenage Girls Talk Sexuality / / Deborah L. Tolman.
Be sexy but not sexual. Don't be a prude but don't be a slut. These are the cultural messages that barrage teenage girls. In movies and magazines, in music and advice columns, girls are portrayed as the object or the victim of someone else's desire--but virtually never as someone with...
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